To Read

[katikat]

Day 4: Vicki Vantoch's "The Threesome Handbook"



Synopsis: A step-by-step guide to realizing the American dream, The Threesome Handbook: A Practical Guide to Sleeping with Three is the first book to give tri-curious men and women the inside scoop on threesomes. Having finally slipped into the mainstream — on MTV, Boston Legal, Entourage, magazines, movies, and just about every respectable blog — sexuality historian and threesome dabbler Victoria Vantoch offers practical and humorous advice on our most popular fantasy.

Featured in The Threesome Handbook:
- The perks of three: hotter sex, more love
- Strategies to prevent freak-outs, jealousy, and general messiness
- How to find the perfect third
- Discovering your inner queer
- When a ménage turns into love—how to create a successful triad relationship
- Communication skills for couples
- Knowing when to break it off
- And much, much more.

Drawing on personal experience, historical research, advice from pros, and hundreds of interviews with veteran and novice threesome adventurers, Vantoch covers the gamut of possibilities in threesome sex and triad relationships. The Threesome Handbook is the essential road map for couples and singles to explore new territory or just spice things up in the sack.

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Why do I want to ready it: I find threesomes incredibly fascinating. How do they make it work? Is it hard? Is it HOT? And thus I bought this book...

Comments

[pandarus]

...okay, colour me seriously impressed that you managed to make this post and NOT refer to Ms Vantoch's crackalicious fanbait spouse.

Is it a good book? (I think that Ms Vantoch may be my hero.)

[katikat]

Yes, it kind of irks me that whenever I mention this book, people are "OMG, DO YOU KNOW WHO HER HUSBAND IS?!" *head/desk* One day, I'll explode and tell someone "YES, I KNOW! WHAT DOES IT HAVE TO DO WITH THE BOOK?"

I got the book just this morning, so I went through it only quickly, but it looks like she talks about serious - and hot! - stuff in a really engaging tone. And with humor too. I look forward to reading it. Threesomes are very... you know... *hands*